The Lafayette

Downsizing from a family house in Lexington does not have to mean leaving the city behind. The Lafayette, at 690 Mason Headley Road, is an independent living community run by Phoenix Senior Living for older adults who want their own apartment without the upkeep. Residents set their own schedules, cook as little or as much as they like, and trained associates are around at all hours if something comes up.

Meals are a big part of the arrangement: 3 a day plus snacks, served restaurant style, with a private dining room for family occasions. Housekeeping and linen service are included, as are utilities apart from optional phone and cable TV, and high-speed internet. An emergency response system is in place, and the buildings are wheelchair accessible.

For staying active there is a fitness center, walking paths through landscaped grounds, a courtyard, a library and a game room. The social calendar mixes daily activities with live entertainment and outings, and scheduled transportation covers appointments too. Dog owners can use the secured dog park, and a salon and barber shop are on site.

The community is in the Headly Green neighborhood near St. Joseph hospital, with shops and restaurants in the surrounding area, and Lexington's horse racing and equestrian events are part of local life. Because only independent living is listed, ask what happens if more help is needed later and whether outside aides can visit. Compare nearby communities through independent living in Lexington.